I am so glad I had made my decision to take the NAJ yesterday because this afternoon I got an email from one of the admins in my current department asking for my last day.
I asked PDM about it and she said "oh, yeah I told her" and I said "told her what?" "that I was offered a position that I haven't yet taken because I was waiting to see what my options were?" and PDM acted as though she had no idea that I wasn't accepting the position yet. Um.. yeah, thanks for pushing me out! So much for her "I love you and need you speech" a few days ago.
I should have known when grad students (who I had not told about the job offer) were coming to ask me when I was starting my new job.
I'm so over it!